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baiklah..kali ini..

misi

MENYIAPKAN TESIS SARJANA

dengan harapan, siap cepat, kerja cepat, KAHWIN cepat.

hahhaa...

p/s: tengok gambar org kahwin, rasa nak kahwin sama! ohoii...bukan gatal..tapi sbb gambar mereka cantik ok.. faham tak erti cantik?

misi: buat pelamin sendiri

wah kau..

nak buat pelamin sendiri?ceh..padahal kahwin lama lagi..harus buat survey dari segi harga dr sekarang sbb,senang nak budget dr sekarang, berapa kenaikan harga akan dtg..ngeh3..

objektif membuat pelamin sendiri ini adalah untuk;

1) invest for my new own living room (ceh ceh ceh-verangan kau nya)

2)invest mahal2 dapat kat diri sendiri adalah sgt berbaloi..

bayangkan..kalau bayar rm4000 utk pelamin,baju n walkaway..gilos..pastu sehari jek pasang..no way..baik i beli barang semua harga 4 ribu ni,i dapat kat diri sendiri..kan?

maka,setelah menggunakan servis paksik google,maka tempat yang supply barang2 perantin..(perantin?)

adalah disini;

Cityone Plaza is located near Bunus 6, J; near Munshi Abdullah, J; nearMosque J India; 0.2 kilometre away from Munshi Abdullah, J; 0.2 kilometre away from Tunku Abdul Rahman, J;Cityone Plaza is geographically located at latitude (3.1551 degrees) 3° 9' 18" North of the Equator and longitude (101.6978 degrees) 101° 41' 52" East of the Prime Meridian on the Map of Kuala Lumpur.

The locations related to Cityone Plazaare represented by the nearest distances for a beam of light to travel and may not be nearest by road. For example, Cityone Plaza is located 0.1 kilometre from Semua House. Cityone Plaza is located 0.1 kilometre from Wisma Jakel. Cityone Plaza is located 0.1 kilometre from Garden City Hotel, Kuala Lumpur. Cityone Plaza is located 0.1 kilometre from Maytower Kl City. Cityone Plaza is located 0.1 kilometre from Wisma Shen

hamek kauuu~

gambar ehsan dari ainiboutique:thanx aini for sharing the info!

lama tidak ke temu kan bloggie?

huhu..

adakah kahwin cepat itu mmg petanda bahagia? i'm so frustrated with one of my friend to be honest.. yeah i know she is getting married for next year! i'm happy then.. but suddenly when i go thru the conversation, she just wanted to make me jealous. yes. read my text. Jealous.

i know, i'm still here being in a relationship for almost 5 years and didnt get married yet! n she didn't! she keep talking about marriage there and then. i dont have much time rite now to talk about weddings! i'm bz with my thesis,my paper,my data collection!

what she does is showing off that -eh,why among us..i get married first eh?-- hey!, I will getting married too but a bit late. insyaALLAH. I'm engaged to ciktam. however, the point is. does the "tarikh" matters? does the cepat or lambat do matters? the fact is, how strong your marriage will ever last?

Tuhan.

I know,once upon a time i was so excited about wedding stuff. that was because i just love the stuffs.

I and Ciktam don't have money rite now. we are bz arranging our life. to get it stable. plus, ciktam just came back for good. He is unemployed rite now. and his parents wont sponsor the wedding because they are on a tight budget.

stay calm dearself. you wont be hurt.

cincin

hai belog...

saya telah tundakan tarikh tunang ke bulan 3,2012 instead of akhir tahun ini..disebabkan ingin menunggu kepulangan nenda tercinta..oppss..kekanda tercinta..tetttt! hihihi

budak nila yg sy nk tunggu tu..cantik lagi saya kan? wakakakaka..ok tett!

[gambar]

cincin tunang belum dibeli kata tam2..harga emas mahal skrg..takpelah..selaku risikan yg low profile, saya terima je cincin tunang murah2 paling simple..yes. i dont mind. asalkan cantik! hahahas..yg penting cantik. cantik ok? keh3..

orang tgok cincin x tanya mahal ke murah,beli kat mana ke apa.asalkan emasnya 916..hahahas..

then,orang akan cakap-->wow,cantiknya cincin..pandai tunang u belikan..gittteewww lewww (tett!)

ok.bye!

new entry

i've read an article of saiful islam..

what really caught my eyes are;

verse from Quran

Wahai orang-orang yang beriman, tidak halal bagi kamu mewarisi perempuan-perempuan dengan jalan paksaan, dan janganlah kamu menyakiti mereka (dengan menahan dan menyusahkan mereka) kerana kamu hendak mengambil balik sebahagian dari apa yang kamu telah berikan kepadanya, kecuali (apabila) mereka melakukan perbuatan keji yang nyata. Dan bergaulah kamu dengan mereka (isteri-isteri kamu itu) dengan cara yang baik. Kemudian jika kamu (merasai) benci kepada mereka (disebabkan tingkah-lakunya, janganlah kamu terburu-buru menceraikannya), kerana boleh jadi kamu bencikan sesuatu, sedang Allah hendak menjadikan pada apa yang kamu benci itu kebaikan yang banyak (untuk kamu). [Al-Nisaa' 4: 19]

may ALLAH bless us all..ameen..

ya ALLAH..

ya ALLAH ya Tuhan kami, murahkanlah rezeki kami..amin...

checklist

hiasan hantaran;

rumput palsu-->done RM2.00X7(10% DISCOUNT)=RM12.60

paper tissue-->

dawai-->

polisterin/kotak biasa-recycle

kain untuk balut--->

alas dulang -(pinjam utk lebih jimat.haha)

bunga pelsu 1(palsu?hahaha)-->done,RM48

bunga pelsu 2(lavender)-->done surveying RM9(for 2 stalks)

dulang-(pinjam utk lebih jimat.haha)

bekas kaca for buah & coklat-->

riben-->RM4

barang hantaran for him

1)blueberry cheesetart

2)cake-tak tahu nak cake apa

3)coklat-might be toblerone& Hershey

4)kain baju melayu

5)--?

6)--?

7)--?

pelaminan..ahaks!

1) kain langsir murah2--beli kain,jahit rm5 hengget.ngeh3

2)bling2--dah beli-->RM10

3)polyster bantal-->

4)kain for bantal2-->

5)vase-->survey kat onestop rm6 hengget jek. nak 2

6)lampu bertiang-->sila survey kat tempat brg terpakai.

7)box rm10(kotak buat isi barang tuh)-alas kain putih,alas rumput pelsu.letak vase ataih. hahaha.gila jimat bukan?hikhiks

8)if dapat lampu,beli mutiara halus2 gam kat tiang lampu

9) span bulatx2

10)bunga sogar beli kat india,secekak rm10 je hoi hoi...

11)langsir punya tiang tuh.beli kat ikea dalam rm30

bilik preparation

1)cat warna cream

2)colorkan rak -putih

3)langsir. harus baru.

motif--> nak murah2 jek..tapi buat sendiri..at least dalam rm100++ spend barang dapat kat kita balik. erm erm..

student's rambling

hola bloggie.

morning.

i'm awake to perform subuh prayer at 6++ o clock. remeber today is 13th september. the day my claims is approved. i thought it was. happy.

but "i thought the rain is pouring till the evening, in fact it pours till lunch break only"

huh.

rm850 per month je pon.

dah la cut budget sampai rm450. hmmmppphh... lewat pulak tu bagi. how can i tolerate with all this craps? budak ptptn sudah dapat duit. senang hati........hai la...

terima kasih sahabat

i pray i would be with u not in this world..but the world here after..*sentimental okehhh*

i should control myself and control my emotions

i should solat di awal waktu..

i should -accept people no matter who they are. don't try to change them-

i should berbaik sesama manusia.

thanx again my dear best friend..

saya tahu

saya tahu saya gedik..tapi saya rindu..rindu akan lelaki itu..entah la kenapa tiba2..

assalamualaikum and hye ladies..

i'm not in the mood to write in english.

let's start over my promise where i want to share about my merisik day.

actually, the merisik was an idea from tam-tam's mother. we decided to be engaged at the end of this year after he comes back to malaysia.. we might be engaged in two years as you all know, the money is our challenges. hahah..syahdu sungguh. but, i dont regret marrying the man who will not give me a wealth. but i know, i'll safe living with him. it's enough for me..

so, come to the story..

Two weeks before

- we were having an argument about -what-i-dont-remember- ..and suddenly cik tam was asking me, whether i'm free on 6th march 2011? he and his siblings intended to merisik. i ask my mom through the phone straight away, and my mom feels alrite with that arrangement.

-i said yes, because i want to come back home on that date co-accidentally.

4/3/2011

- i arrived in shah alam around 12 pm, and decided to meet tamtam after jumaat prayer. settling down an article about iraq. i was being late, and tamtam was not please with that..hahhaa...nak nangis, but i tahan..after that, he was ok. and we dine in secret recipe. so worth it. lantaklah dia nak marah ke apa, janji i dapat makan. muahahhaa

- when we were having our dishes, my mom called and inform me daniel was warded because his dengue fever. i rushed back home. hoho..

On the hari kejadian

- i suppose to wear the white rob and matching it with my tudung warna warni. hahha..but then, i dont want to look so beriya, i wore english cotton baju kurung of my sister. ya...i cooked spaghetti on that morning and did some cheesecakes last nite. my yougest brother was still in the ward. that was why we cook simple dish and off to hosp after the event.

- when his family coming, i was so gelabah and decided to peel-off the fruits in the kitchen. oo la la...the discussion was finished.

- i received a lovely ring with purple nice jubah..alhamdulillah..done..

alhamdulillah

everything went well yesterday. i'll update what was going to happen on my merisik day.

tomorrow

preparing for tomorrow's event. but oyel have been warded. dengue fever. so, the plan was changed. i'm glad. hahah...

ALLAH is the BEST planner rite?


i will not wear the white jubah. i'll wear english cotton baju kurung of my sis. huhu..

which one is your element?

merisik

assalamualaikum and hye dear..

it was a long pause, i havent been here. i was so busy with my cheesecake business. yeah, i know i have a homework..eheheh..but i dont have much time to make a review on it.

i'll be in shah alam within this week, cik tam intended to "merisik" me. yeah.. "merisik" only, i'll receive a "tanda"'s ring..not yet engaged..however, according to syarak, if i accept the proposal, i and he are considered as engaged. it is called "khitbah" (lamaran). thus, haram if any other man come to propose me when I've accepted the first proposal.

take a tour on this website about hukum on khitbah

http://muzakarah.tripod.com/tunang.html

seriously, i do not know how the function going to be, what i need to do & etc etc...

i searched several websites and i found this. i hope it helps!

http://titassemtwo.blogspot.com/2009/03/adat-merisik.html

and he asked me to go to goldsmith, looking for ring size.

size 13~

hahha, my ring finger is BIG! whoaaa! (^__^)

i would wear my white 1st lady jubah and matching it with colorful hijab..wahaha..i do not know how it will look like. just let it be. he and his family have seen me wearing that jubah and i think it is alright enough (tidak la beriya sangat, ye tak?)

no need make-up.

and i need to make my marvelous rare peach cheesecake. heheheh.. to show off my cooking skill..kikikiki..

insyaALLAH this is the best~

a gown for nikah (solemnization)

notes: i did not do my assignment of surveying the centerpiece yet. i will. not now.. (^^,)

shall i say that a gown for nikah is far much important than the reception dress? ngeh3.. i would like to say yes..heee...

as the fashion's wave is changing, never at the same top, my preference is as much the wave. yeah. hahaha..

i got to know KAFTAN designs.

i liked it so much. but at that time.

muahaha...

and as the fashion design changes,

blup.

i like a part of chiffons+laces.

OMG! it just so lovely...!!!!

a gown for cinderella. wow. (^^,)

p/s: the white is much better..hehehe..from arma couture if i'm not mistaken..

centerpiece?

asSalam and hye dear..

thinking out of making a CHEAP, sweet, lovely & yet can be recycled back, CENTERPIECE.. I think I'll just DIY it. ehehhee.. but I will see how much it cost. Is it cost effective? or i just have need to hire a wedding decorator on my reception? Let me see. The idea was here.

all the pictures have been taken from thingsfestive

Next project. calculating DIY centerpiece for 30 tables. is it cost effective?

not yet

i am not yet engaged, not yet married.. I am single.. this blog is only my concern and my interest towards the wedding and the meaning beneath it. I love the excitement of getting married among my friends and who ever they are.. However,marriage does not require the physical preparation only. It needs loads of mental preparation. Stay tune with me ya ;)

Love,

UmmU Tasnim

(^^,)