saya tahu

saya tahu saya gedik..tapi saya rindu..rindu akan lelaki itu..entah la kenapa tiba2..

assalamualaikum and hye ladies..

i'm not in the mood to write in english.

let's start over my promise where i want to share about my merisik day.

actually, the merisik was an idea from tam-tam's mother. we decided to be engaged at the end of this year after he comes back to malaysia.. we might be engaged in two years as you all know, the money is our challenges. hahah..syahdu sungguh. but, i dont regret marrying the man who will not give me a wealth. but i know, i'll safe living with him. it's enough for me..

so, come to the story..

Two weeks before

- we were having an argument about -what-i-dont-remember- ..and suddenly cik tam was asking me, whether i'm free on 6th march 2011? he and his siblings intended to merisik. i ask my mom through the phone straight away, and my mom feels alrite with that arrangement.

-i said yes, because i want to come back home on that date co-accidentally.

4/3/2011

- i arrived in shah alam around 12 pm, and decided to meet tamtam after jumaat prayer. settling down an article about iraq. i was being late, and tamtam was not please with that..hahhaa...nak nangis, but i tahan..after that, he was ok. and we dine in secret recipe. so worth it. lantaklah dia nak marah ke apa, janji i dapat makan. muahahhaa

- when we were having our dishes, my mom called and inform me daniel was warded because his dengue fever. i rushed back home. hoho..

On the hari kejadian

- i suppose to wear the white rob and matching it with my tudung warna warni. hahha..but then, i dont want to look so beriya, i wore english cotton baju kurung of my sister. ya...i cooked spaghetti on that morning and did some cheesecakes last nite. my yougest brother was still in the ward. that was why we cook simple dish and off to hosp after the event.

- when his family coming, i was so gelabah and decided to peel-off the fruits in the kitchen. oo la la...the discussion was finished.

- i received a lovely ring with purple nice jubah..alhamdulillah..done..

alhamdulillah

everything went well yesterday. i'll update what was going to happen on my merisik day.

tomorrow

preparing for tomorrow's event. but oyel have been warded. dengue fever. so, the plan was changed. i'm glad. hahah...

ALLAH is the BEST planner rite?


i will not wear the white jubah. i'll wear english cotton baju kurung of my sis. huhu..

which one is your element?

merisik

assalamualaikum and hye dear..

it was a long pause, i havent been here. i was so busy with my cheesecake business. yeah, i know i have a homework..eheheh..but i dont have much time to make a review on it.

i'll be in shah alam within this week, cik tam intended to "merisik" me. yeah.. "merisik" only, i'll receive a "tanda"'s ring..not yet engaged..however, according to syarak, if i accept the proposal, i and he are considered as engaged. it is called "khitbah" (lamaran). thus, haram if any other man come to propose me when I've accepted the first proposal.

take a tour on this website about hukum on khitbah

http://muzakarah.tripod.com/tunang.html

seriously, i do not know how the function going to be, what i need to do & etc etc...

i searched several websites and i found this. i hope it helps!

http://titassemtwo.blogspot.com/2009/03/adat-merisik.html

and he asked me to go to goldsmith, looking for ring size.

size 13~

hahha, my ring finger is BIG! whoaaa! (^__^)

i would wear my white 1st lady jubah and matching it with colorful hijab..wahaha..i do not know how it will look like. just let it be. he and his family have seen me wearing that jubah and i think it is alright enough (tidak la beriya sangat, ye tak?)

no need make-up.

and i need to make my marvelous rare peach cheesecake. heheheh.. to show off my cooking skill..kikikiki..

insyaALLAH this is the best~